we should take value-based approach to coaching our children, as parents, as teachers, and as educators. as professional athletes we should insure they learn the life skills they need long after playing the game such as fairness, honesty, compassion. jon: look at clemens, for instance. he was acquitted. he testified in front of congress said i never used steroids. he got taken to court for perjury. and he was acquitted, danny. >> he was acquit the. unfortunately he may or may not have taken the steroids but again the focus here is on the children. this, win at all costs mentality, that is taking place in the big leagues has trickled down to the lowest levels. we have parents going after coaches because they don't like that the player is not getting enough playing time. coaches going after officials. there is yelling, there is screaming. there is profanity. there is cheating. we should teach our children better to fail than it is to cheat. we should create winners the fair and honest way. jon: jim, what about that? >> well, yes but you know, there has been a mantra in professional sports